Andrew Carl Jacobs 19 June, 1961 – 10 August, 2023
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TO MEMORY TIMELINE
Such fond memories of Jake and so sad to hear of him passing. Love to his family. Carolyn.
Andrew was one of the finest gentlemen I ever had the privilege of working with. He was a fabulous musician, inspired teacher and always there to lend a hand in times of IT trouble (which for me was more often than not)! He was adored by all staff and students at Ringwood Secondary College and will be greatly missed. Goodbye to a gracious, generous soul. May you continue to play up a storm in heaven's orchestra! ❤️
Darling Andrew, my best husband, it was too sudden for me to accept reality. I would wake up countless times at night, and wake up with heart pain in the morning. In the past 14 years, what you have done for me has appeared in my mind like a movie. There will never be another you who love me so much in this world. You have my photos in your phone, don't delete them. Years later, I will find you, don't forget me. In heaven, you take care of yourself and don't work too hard. I will take good care of myself and our daughter and son. Please rest assured that I will continue your love for my daughter and maintain a good relationship with our big family. Much love to your wife Mary
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Anyone who has known us for a long time probably knew 'Jake'. He has been one of Chris's closest friends since they were 18. They stood as Best Man for each other at our weddings. They have played together in more orchestras, performances and musicals than anyone can count. Any one who knew Chris and Jake in their 20s knew they pretty much came as a pair. We have shared our lives together over four decades. We parented babies and small children together and enjoyed many a holiday. We are heart broken. We are devastated. Tears well up everytime we reminisce. RIP Jakey-baby-boo-boo-head. We are gutted for you. NB photo of Andrew with our son, Sam.
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Known Jake as long as we have known Chris. He always accepted us and included us in special times. He was such a warm hearted young man and always made us feel welcome. Our thoughts and prayers tomorrow and days following for Mary and other family members. He will be greatly missed.
Working and playing with Andrew was a gift. Over 30 years his calm nature, encouraging words and sense of humour made time spent with him a joy. A dreamer who acted on his ideas. I will miss hearing him make his oboe sing. RIP “Jake”
Our deepest condolences to Tim and the whole family for the lost of their beloved Son, brother and the whole family. RIP
My dearest friend Andrew, I am currently across the world separated only by distance as we have been for many years,nonetheless, to coin a phrase, thank you for being my best friend, my very best friend . You were at St Paul's when I first arrived in Australia I the early 70s Through out all my teens my first and very best friend. So many days talking, cycling growing up and getting into minor mischief. When we left school our lives diverged, but you remained an influential part of my life and who I am now. Thank you for all the joy you gave so many people Through your music and life. Thank you for the unwavering friendship spanning over 50 years, thank you for your kindness and humour. Thank you for being you. You were and still are my original best friend. I trust we meet again.
I met Andrew through music and it was a pleasure to play in so many orchestras and groups with him over the years. I will miss his smile in the wind section. Such a lovely human being. Sending much love to his family and friends.
Sleep well, Andrew. Your memory will live on in every note of music that is played. We will all wake up one-day being at peace with a shock of losing you. It is a big loss to the music world and a big loss to your family and close friends. My condolences to everyone, perhaps we can meet again in happier circumstances, but at least we can all be happy we have been blessed to know each other through Andrews life in one way or another.
Thanks for 40 plus years of friendship. Your self depreciating wit. Your great sense of humour. You will be hugely missed.
I was so shocked to hear the news and equally sad that I'm so far away that I couldn't attend the funeral. I hadn't seen Jake in many years but have wonderful and fond memories of our time together in college. A stand out is the barbershop quartet. I still have recordings we made (thanks to Paul Dooley) and must dig them out when I finally get home. I loved your beautiful oboe playing, your beautiful, cheeky smile (which was often) and your kind loving and gently manner. My deepest condolences to Jake's family. My dear friend, Carolyn has just painted a beautiful picture over the phone to me of the service. Rest in Peace, Jake. Xx
So shocked to hear of this sad news. Andrew was a regular at our dinner table in the 80’s and 90’s as he went between helping with computer maintenance to rehearsals or performances. He was a musical inspiration to our girls, and a generous support and kind friend to us all. Rest in Peace Andrew. Condolences to his family.
Dearest Andrew, Such a gentleman, kind and loving soul who'll be missed by so many. You always been an amazing uncle for K, T, E and my son Ben who enjoyed your company, your laughs and your generosity. You lived your life to the fullest and now time to rest in peace. Just so you know, Andrew.... you are loved! ❤️
Our beloved cousin Andrew, a talented teacher, musician and gentleman. Your funeral at St Paul’s was an amazing tribute. A choir of over 300 voices in harmony sharing stories or your extraordinary talent, kindness and gentleness. Our family chain has a link missing but your light and love lives on. Your Senior cousins💖
Dear Andrew, What a wonderful send-off you had! It epitomised the life that you lived and the many lives that you touched. I am honoured to have known you and to have shared some wonderful family memories. The Summers at Inverloch in your Minnie and the privilege of you performing at my wedding. I am saddened that your life was cut short and that those close to you don’t get you for a longer time. Vale cousin Andrew!
My love to all who will miss Andrew. He was my world for a decade of my life, and I will always be grateful to him for caring for me. I'm so glad he had his beautiful Elise, and he found the wonderful Mary. I have so many precious memories, and I will always, always miss him. Vale, Andrew. x
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Separated by distance I missed the opportunity to get to know you better my elder cousin, but your service held many insights into your depth of character, esp. your gentle humility, intelligence and generous spirit. A life well lived, yet cut too short. May those who mourn your loss the most be comforted in the love and care you contributed to the many lives you touched.
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Andrew, I will miss your smile, your intellect and your creativity. I always admired your talent with music and technology. You were generous and kind, a truly gentle man. For me you were a cousin, a friend and a mentor. Thank you for being such an important part of my life. Rest in peace.
You are amazing and wonderful Brother Andrew, will cherish all the memories and you will forever in my heart 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 Your little brother, David
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Farewell dear cousin Andrew. It was a sad celebration of your life with stunning music, eulogies and so much love at a beautiful venue. I was glad to be there. I’ll never forget your encouragement of my singing as a kid and singing carols in harmony with you at Christmas. Thanks for driving all the way to Goulburn to see me in a show. A great loss to so many. Much love to the family.
It was a privilege to know you from my young beginner oboe days as not just an oboe tutor, but someone who could have a laugh and be a friendly, supportive mentor to not just me - but countless musicians and students through the years. A true gentleman with a great wit. Vale Jake.
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Always a gentle, smiling presence. I have sweet memories of the Mini, Dunoon St, Inverloch and you living at our house in Wantirna. The attendance at St Paul’s on Thursday represented how you touched so many people’s lives. RIP my dear cousin Andrew. You are missed. x
I was shocked to recently learn of Andrew's (Jake's) passing. I was in Andrew's class at Blackburn Hight School, and we also studied for our Teaching degrees at college at the same time. A great fellow, always good natured. My sympathies to his family and friends.
Such fond memories of Jake and so sad to hear of him passing. Love to his family. Carolyn. Read full message here.
Andrew was one of the finest gentlemen I ever had the privilege of working with. He was a fabulous musician, inspired teacher and always there to lend a hand in times of IT trouble (which for me was more often than not)! He was adored by all staff and students at Ringwood Secondary College and will be greatly missed. Goodbye to a gracious, generous soul. May you continue to play up a storm in heaven's orchestra! ❤️ Read full message here.
Darling Andrew, my best husband, it was too sudden for me to accept reality. I would wake up countless times at night, and wake up with heart pain in the morning. In the past 14 years, what you have done for me has appeared in my mind like a movie. There will never be another you who love me so much in this world. You have my photos in your phone, don't delete them. Years later, I will find you, don't forget me. In heaven, you take care of yourself and don't work too hard. I will take good care of myself and our daughter and son. Please rest assured that I will continue your love for my daughter and maintain a good relationship with our big family. Much love to your wife Mary View full message
Lihua Liu
Anyone who has known us for a long time probably knew 'Jake'. He has been one of Chris's closest friends since they were 18. They stood as Best Man for each other at our weddings. They have played together in more orchestras, performances and musicals than anyone can count. Any one who knew Chris and Jake in their 20s knew they pretty much came as a pair. We have shared our lives together over four decades. We parented babies and small children together and enjoyed many a holiday. We are heart broken. We are devastated. Tears well up everytime we reminisce. RIP Jakey-baby-boo-boo-head. We are gutted for you. NB photo of Andrew with our son, Sam. View full message
Carolyn and Chris OndaatjeKnown Jake as long as we have known Chris. He always accepted us and included us in special times. He was such a warm hearted young man and always made us feel welcome. Our thoughts and prayers tomorrow and days following for Mary and other family members. He will be greatly missed. Read full message here.
Working and playing with Andrew was a gift. Over 30 years his calm nature, encouraging words and sense of humour made time spent with him a joy. A dreamer who acted on his ideas. I will miss hearing him make his oboe sing. RIP “Jake” Read full message here.
Our deepest condolences to Tim and the whole family for the lost of their beloved Son, brother and the whole family. RIP Read full message here.
My dearest friend Andrew, I am currently across the world separated only by distance as we have been for many years,nonetheless, to coin a phrase, thank you for being my best friend, my very best friend . You were at St Paul's when I first arrived in Australia I the early 70s Through out all my teens my first and very best friend. So many days talking, cycling growing up and getting into minor mischief. When we left school our lives diverged, but you remained an influential part of my life and who I am now. Thank you for all the joy you gave so many people Through your music and life. Thank you for the unwavering friendship spanning over 50 years, thank you for your kindness and humour. Thank you for being you. You were and still are my original best friend. I trust we meet again. Read full message here.
I met Andrew through music and it was a pleasure to play in so many orchestras and groups with him over the years. I will miss his smile in the wind section. Such a lovely human being. Sending much love to his family and friends. Read full message here.
Sleep well, Andrew. Your memory will live on in every note of music that is played. We will all wake up one-day being at peace with a shock of losing you. It is a big loss to the music world and a big loss to your family and close friends. My condolences to everyone, perhaps we can meet again in happier circumstances, but at least we can all be happy we have been blessed to know each other through Andrews life in one way or another. Read full message here.
Thanks for 40 plus years of friendship. Your self depreciating wit. Your great sense of humour. You will be hugely missed. Read full message here.
I was so shocked to hear the news and equally sad that I'm so far away that I couldn't attend the funeral. I hadn't seen Jake in many years but have wonderful and fond memories of our time together in college. A stand out is the barbershop quartet. I still have recordings we made (thanks to Paul Dooley) and must dig them out when I finally get home. I loved your beautiful oboe playing, your beautiful, cheeky smile (which was often) and your kind loving and gently manner. My deepest condolences to Jake's family. My dear friend, Carolyn has just painted a beautiful picture over the phone to me of the service. Rest in Peace, Jake. Xx Read full message here.
So shocked to hear of this sad news. Andrew was a regular at our dinner table in the 80’s and 90’s as he went between helping with computer maintenance to rehearsals or performances. He was a musical inspiration to our girls, and a generous support and kind friend to us all. Rest in Peace Andrew. Condolences to his family. Read full message here.
Dearest Andrew, Such a gentleman, kind and loving soul who'll be missed by so many. You always been an amazing uncle for K, T, E and my son Ben who enjoyed your company, your laughs and your generosity. You lived your life to the fullest and now time to rest in peace. Just so you know, Andrew.... you are loved! ❤️ Read full message here.
Our beloved cousin Andrew, a talented teacher, musician and gentleman. Your funeral at St Paul’s was an amazing tribute. A choir of over 300 voices in harmony sharing stories or your extraordinary talent, kindness and gentleness. Our family chain has a link missing but your light and love lives on. Your Senior cousins💖 Read full message here.
Dear Andrew, What a wonderful send-off you had! It epitomised the life that you lived and the many lives that you touched. I am honoured to have known you and to have shared some wonderful family memories. The Summers at Inverloch in your Minnie and the privilege of you performing at my wedding. I am saddened that your life was cut short and that those close to you don’t get you for a longer time. Vale cousin Andrew! Read full message here.
My love to all who will miss Andrew. He was my world for a decade of my life, and I will always be grateful to him for caring for me. I'm so glad he had his beautiful Elise, and he found the wonderful Mary. I have so many precious memories, and I will always, always miss him. Vale, Andrew. x View full message
Joanne Jacobs
Separated by distance I missed the opportunity to get to know you better my elder cousin, but your service held many insights into your depth of character, esp. your gentle humility, intelligence and generous spirit. A life well lived, yet cut too short. May those who mourn your loss the most be comforted in the love and care you contributed to the many lives you touched.
Andrew, I will miss your smile, your intellect and your creativity. I always admired your talent with music and technology. You were generous and kind, a truly gentle man. For me you were a cousin, a friend and a mentor. Thank you for being such an important part of my life. Rest in peace. Read full message here.
You are amazing and wonderful Brother Andrew, will cherish all the memories and you will forever in my heart 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 Your little brother, David View full message
David JacobsFarewell dear cousin Andrew. It was a sad celebration of your life with stunning music, eulogies and so much love at a beautiful venue. I was glad to be there. I’ll never forget your encouragement of my singing as a kid and singing carols in harmony with you at Christmas. Thanks for driving all the way to Goulburn to see me in a show. A great loss to so many. Much love to the family. Read full message here.
It was a privilege to know you from my young beginner oboe days as not just an oboe tutor, but someone who could have a laugh and be a friendly, supportive mentor to not just me - but countless musicians and students through the years. A true gentleman with a great wit. Vale Jake. View full message
Susan BattenAlways a gentle, smiling presence. I have sweet memories of the Mini, Dunoon St, Inverloch and you living at our house in Wantirna. The attendance at St Paul’s on Thursday represented how you touched so many people’s lives. RIP my dear cousin Andrew. You are missed. x Read full message here.
I was shocked to recently learn of Andrew's (Jake's) passing. I was in Andrew's class at Blackburn Hight School, and we also studied for our Teaching degrees at college at the same time. A great fellow, always good natured. My sympathies to his family and friends. Read full message here.